Sunday, November 14, 2010

Everybody has a mom

Last week an old family/childhood friend was on the news - not in a good way. More of a "here is my mugshot" way.

This was the first boy I ever kissed (over my 3rd birthday cake....) and my parents were very close with his parents.

Then we moved to Utah, and they stayed in California and now I wouldn't recognize him if he walked up to me and said hello.

So although I hardly know him, it broke my heart to see him on the news that way.

So I e-mailed my mom to see how his parents are doing.

Not well.

"They're devastated." she said. "This makes you see things like this from a different perspective. I guess even Brian David Mitchell has a mother."

I suppose we all take our turns doing things we regret, and while some do things that are completely inexcusable, somewhere there is probably a mother/wife/brother who is aching for the mistakes made by a person they love.

Someone who once kissed a little girl over her 3rd birthday cake making her birthday wish come true.

2 comments:

  1. I can't even imagine being that mother to someone who's gotten themselves in THAT bad of a spot. we do all make mistakes and they're adults but still i don't know if i could handle that.

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  2. And sometimes they were just their Primary teacher and foster parents for four months, and their hearts break that the beautiful little blond boy turned out to be a thief and a convicted felon.

    It's important to try to have an identity of yourself that isn't exclusively "mother;" because, sure enough, your children get to have their agency, too. And sometimes that hurts.

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